[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/vychova-deti-je-tezka-prace\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/vychova-deti-je-tezka-prace\/","headline":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce","name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce","description":"I pokud m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo sourozence, a vid\u00ed jak prob\u00edh\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de o mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, t\u011b\u017eko si p\u0159edstav\u00ed, co to doopravdy znamen\u00e1. M\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b 24 hodin pod dohledem a m\u00edt za n\u011bj nonstop zodpov\u011bdnost nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 legrace. Kdo chce z d\u00edt\u011bte vychovat slu\u0161n\u00e9ho, inteligentn\u00edho a spo\u0159\u00e1dan\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, \u010dek\u00e1 jej spousta pr\u00e1ce. V\u0161ude se \u010dlov\u011bk do\u010dte, co nem\u00e1 […]","datePublished":"2022-03-30","dateModified":"2023-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5522eb0fc8481dea5f6519f6a0b15ee2c46358d48429b281fd7c49cbb5a929f9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5522eb0fc8481dea5f6519f6a0b15ee2c46358d48429b281fd7c49cbb5a929f9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"josu.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/children-g9a27d9028_640_2.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/children-g9a27d9028_640_2.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/vychova-deti-je-tezka-prace\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":457,"articleBody":"I pokud m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo sourozence, a vid\u00ed jak prob\u00edh\u00e1 p\u00e9\u010de o mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, t\u011b\u017eko si p\u0159edstav\u00ed, co to doopravdy znamen\u00e1. M\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b 24 hodin pod dohledem a m\u00edt za n\u011bj nonstop zodpov\u011bdnost nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 legrace. Kdo chce z d\u00edt\u011bte vychovat slu\u0161n\u00e9ho, inteligentn\u00edho a spo\u0159\u00e1dan\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, \u010dek\u00e1 jej spousta pr\u00e1ce. V\u0161ude se \u010dlov\u011bk do\u010dte, co nem\u00e1 d\u011blat. Co d\u011btem nekupovat, co jim nedovolit, co jako rodi\u010d rozhodn\u011b ned\u011blat. Ale na v\u00fdchovu d\u00edt\u011bte neexistuje n\u00e1vod. Je to star\u00e1 zn\u00e1m\u00e1 metoda pokus – omyl.P\u0159ed druh\u00fdm rokem \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 prvn\u00ed t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 zkou\u0161ka rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed, a t\u00edm je obdob\u00ed vzdoru. Chyt\u00e1te se u\u017e te\u010f za hlavu? Bu\u010fte v klidu, je to PRVN\u00cd obdob\u00ed vzdoru. Dal\u0161\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159ijdou. To prvn\u00ed je specifick\u00e9 v tom, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed mluvit, tak\u017ee se vztek\u00e1, ml\u00e1t\u00ed sebou o zem, a vy absolutn\u011b netu\u0161\u00edte pro\u010d. D\u00edt\u011b zase nerozum\u00ed v\u00e1m, tak\u017ee nech\u00e1pe, co po n\u011bm chcete vy. A tento koloto\u010d trv\u00e1 zhruba rok. Mil\u00ed rodi\u010de, dr\u017ete si klobouky. Je toto rozko\u0161n\u00e9 obdob\u00ed u\u017e i u v\u00e1s? Ur\u010dit\u011b u\u017e jste byli n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t ve f\u00e1zi tot\u00e1ln\u00edho zoufalstv\u00ed, a za\u010dali jste hledat rady na internetu. Ale nejsp\u00ed\u0161 marn\u011b.Ono se to snadno rad\u00ed\u2026Rady se snadn\u011bji d\u00e1vaj\u00ed, ne\u017e se dodr\u017euj\u00ed. A pr\u00e1v\u011b v tom je h\u00e1\u010dek. M\u016f\u017eete si stokr\u00e1t p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1te b\u011bhem vzteku obejmout a uti\u0161it. Ale jak, kdy\u017e se vzpouz\u00ed a kope v\u00e1s hlava nehlava? To asi obejmut\u00ed moc nepom\u016f\u017ee. Do\u010detli jste se, \u017ee pom\u00e1h\u00e1 klidn\u00e1 domluva? A jak ji chcete praktikovat u batolete, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m rozum\u00ed sotva p\u00e1r slov? T\u011b\u017eko na n\u011bj m\u016f\u017eete j\u00edt s n\u011bjak\u00fdmi chytr\u00fdmi pou\u010dkami. N\u00e1hl\u00e9 zm\u011bny chov\u00e1n\u00ed jsou bohu\u017eel v po\u0159\u00e1dku, a je to d\u00e1no t\u00edm, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b se u\u010d\u00ed pracovat s emocemi, kam pat\u0159\u00ed i vztek. A rodi\u010d\u016fm tak nezb\u00fdv\u00e1 ne\u017e z posledn\u00edch sil zkusit toto obdob\u00ed n\u011bj p\u0159e\u010dkat. N\u011bkdy je to na pan\u00e1ka a \u0161punty do u\u0161\u00ed, ale rodi\u010de, neztr\u00e1cejte nad\u011bji – je to jenom obdob\u00ed, a ur\u010dit\u011b jednou p\u0159ejde. I kdy\u017e mo\u017en\u00e1 za cenu toho, \u017ee v\u00e1m ze\u0161ediv\u00ed vlasy. Ale i na to je \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed – m\u016f\u017eete si je nabarvit na libovolnou barvu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce","item":"https:\/\/www.josu.cz\/vychova-deti-je-tezka-prace\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]